*🌎SUBHAANALLAH🌍*
AULAAD KI PARWARISH SE MUTA'ALLIQ CHAND ZAROOTI HIDAAYAAT:
1- Aurton mein aadat hai k Bachchon ko Jinn-bhoot aur doosri drawni cheezon se daraati hain ye bahot ghalat baat hai isse bachche ka Dil ❤️ kamzor hota hai.
(Maa ko chahiye k bachche ko baap se daraati rahein.)
2- Agar ladka ho to uske sir par baal mat badhaao aur agar ladki hai to jab tak ghar mein baithne ke qaabil na ho jaaye zewar mat pehnaao. Isse dk to jaan ka khatra rehta hai aur doosri baat bachpan se hi zewar ka shoq dil mein hona achchhi baat nahi.
3- Bachchon ke haathon se ghareebon ko khaana, Kapda, paisa aur aisi cheezen dilwaaya karein. Isi tarah khaane peene ki cheezein unke bhai-behno ko ya aur bachchon ko taqseem karaaya karo taake aapke bachchon mein sakhaawat ki aadat ho.
4-Zyaadah khaane waale ki buraai vachchon ke saamne kiya karo lekin naam kekar nahi ki falaan zyaadah khaata hai balke is tarah k jo zyaadah khaate hain log use habshi kehte hain.
5- Agar Ladka ho to safed rang ki righbat uske Dil mein paida keejiye.
6-Agar Ladki ho to bahot takalluf ke kapdon ki use aadat mat daaliye.
7-Bachchon ki sab ziden poori mat karein isse bachche ka mizaaj bigad jata hai.
8- Chilla kar bolne se rokein warna bade hokar pukhta aadat ho jaayegi.
9- Jin bachchon ki aadatein kharaab hain ya padhne-likhne se bhagte hain ya takalluf kd khaane ke aur kapde ke aadi hain. Gaalam galouch karte hain unke saath baithne se aur saath khelne se unko bachaayen.
10- In baaton se nafrat dilate raho Gussa, jhoot bolna , kusi ko drkh kar jalna ya hirs karna, chori karna, chughli khana, be-faydah bahot baatein karna, be baat hansna ya zyaadah hansna, Dhokha dena, Bhali-buri baat ka na sochna aur jab inmein se koi baat ho jaye to fouran isko rokein aur isko tambeeh keejiye.
11- Agar koi cheez tod-phod de ya kisi ko maar baithe to bachche ko munasib saza do taake phir aisa na kare. Aisi baton mein pyaar dulaar bachche ko kho deta hai.
12- Bachcha jab 7 saal ka ho jaaye to Namaz ki aadat daalo. Jab maktab mein jaane ke qabil ho jaaye to awwal Quran Majeed padhwaayen.
13- Bahot Sawere mat sone dein aur jaldi uthne ki aadat daalein.
14- Kabhi-kabhi bachchon ko nek logon ki Hikaayatein sunaya keejiye.
15- Unko aisi kitaabein mat dekhne do jinmein aashiqi-ma'ashooqi ki baatein hon ya behoidah qisse aur ghazlein waghairh hon.
16- Maktab se aane ke ba'ad bachche ko kisi qadar Dil behlaane waaste kuchh der khelne do taake uski tabiyat kund na ho ho jaaye. Lekin khel aisa ho jismein koi gunah na hoaur chot lagne ka andedha na ho.
17- Aatish-baazi, ya baaja ya fuzool cheezein mol lene ke liye paise mat do aur khel-tamaashe dikgane ki aadat mat daalein.
(Aaj ke daur ke aitbaar se be-maqsad mobile woh bhi Smart phones, video games, aise khel jinse sehat ka nuqsaan ho aur sirf paison ka ziyaa ho. apne gali-muhallle, schools colleges ya universities ke aise doston aur saheliyon ke saath ghoomne ke liye paise aur ijaazat dena waghairah sab shaamil hai)
18- Aulaad ko zaroor koi aisa hunar sikhlaa dein jisse zroorat aur museebat ke waqt 4 paise haasil karke apna aur apne bachchon ka guzaarah kar sakein.
19- Ladkiyon ko kam az kam itna padhna likhna zaroor sikhaayen k zaroori khutoot aur ghar ka hisaab kar sakein.
20- Bachchon ko aadat daaliye k apna kaam apne haath se karein. Apaahij aur sust na ho jaayen. Unhe kahein k apna bistar khud bichhaayein aue subah uth kar khud teh karke ahetiyaat se rakh dein.
21- Ladkiyon ko hidaayaat dein k jo kaam khaane-pakaane, seene-parone, kapde rangne ke hain unhein nihaayat dil lagaakar seekhein.
22- Jab bachche se koi achchhi baat zaahir ho to laazmi usd shaabaash do, pyaar karein aur kuchh in'aam dein taake uska dil badhe aur jab koi buri baat dekho to bachche ko tanhaai mein samjhaayen k dekho achchhe nek log aisa kaam nahi karte aur karne waale ko log bura jante hain aur agar bachcha dobaarah ghalat amal dohraaye to bachche ko munaasib saza dein.
23- Bachche ko koi bhi kaa chhipaakar mat karne dein. Khel ho ya khaana ho ya shughl ka koi bhi kaam ho.
24- Koi kaam mehnat ka iske zhimme muqarrar karein jisse sehat aur himmat rahe susti na aane paaye.
25- Bachchon ko chalnw mein taakeed karein k bahot jaldi na chalein aur cgslte hue nigah ooper uthakar na chale.
26- Idko aajizee ikhtiyaar karne ki aadat daslein, zabaan se chaal se aur bartaav se. Shekhiyaan na maare.
27- Bachche ko kuchh paise diya karo k apni marzi se kharch kiya karo Magar usko ye aadat daalo k aapse chhipaakar kuchh na khareede.
*Note:- Is paighaam ko doosron tak pahunchaiye taake Allah Ta'aala kisi ki zindagi ko aapke zariye badal de.
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