NIKAAH KI SUNNATEN
1-Masnoon Nikaah woh hai jo saadah ho jisme hangaama ya zyaadah takallufaat aur jahez waghairah ke saamaan ka jhagda na ho.
2-Nikaah ke liye nek aursaaleh fard ko talaash karna aur mangni ya paighaam bhejna masnoon hai.
3-Jumaa ke din masjid me aur shawwaal ke maheene Nikaah karna pasandeedah aur masnoon hai.
4-Nikaah ko mashhoor karna aur Nikaah ke baad chhuaare ya Khajoor taqseem karna sunnat hai.
5-Hasb e istita,at Meher muqarrar karna sunnat hai.
6-Shaadi ki pehli raat jab biwi ke paas jaaye to Biwi ki paishaani ke ooper ke baal pakad kar ye duaa padhe:-
اَللّٰهُمَّ اِنِّئٓ اَسْىَٔلُكَ خَيْرَهَا وَ خَيْرَمَا جَبَلْتَهَا عَلَيْهِ وَ اَعُوْذُبِكَ مِنْ شَرِّهَا وَ شَرِّمَا جَبَلْتَهَا عَلَيْهِ.
TARJUMA:- A Allah ! Mai tujhse iski bhalai aur iske aadaat o akhlaq ki bhalai ka sawal karta hun aur iske akhlaq o aadaat ke shar se teri panah mangta hun.
7-Phir ye duaa padhe:-
بِسْمِ اللّٰهِ اَللّٰهُمَّ جَنِّبْنَا الشَّيْطٰنَ وَجَنِّبِ الشَّيْطٰنَ مَا رَزَقْتَنَا۔
TARJUMA:- Mai ALLAH ka naam lekar ye kaam karta hun, A, ALLAH hamko shaitaan se bachaa aur jo aulaad tu hamko de usko bhi shaitaan se door rakh.
NOTE:-Is Duaa ko padh lene se jo aulaad hogi usko shaitaan kabhi zarar na pahunchaa sakega,isse shaitaan se hifaazat ho jaayegi
8-Mardon ke liye saadhe chaar (4.5) maasha wazan se kam ki chaandi ki Angoothi pehenne ki ijaazat hai aur sone ki Angoothi mardon ke liye bilkul haraam hai.
9-Aurton ke liye Menhdi istemaal karna sunnat hai.
10-WALEEMA
*Shab uroosi guzaarne ke baad apne azeezon,Doston, Rishtedaaron aur masaakeen ko waleeme ka khaana khilaana sunnat hai.waleeme ke liye zaroori nhi hai ki bade paimaane par khaana tayyaar karke khilaaye. thoda khaana hasb e istita,at tayyaar karke doston Azeezon waghairah ko thoda-thoda khilaana bhi adaayegi sunnat ke liye kaafi hai.
*Bahut bada waleema woh hai ki maaldaar v Duniyadaar logon ko to bulaaya jaaye magar Ghareeb, miskeen, Mohtaaj aur Deendaar logon ko dhutkaar diya jaaye.Aise bure waleeme se bachna chahiye waleeme me adaaygi sunnat ki niyat rakhiye.Deendaar,Ghareeb aur mohtaaj logon ko bulaao.Ameeron me se jise chaahe bulaao magar ghareebon ko nazar andaaz na kariye aur bura sulook na keejiye.
*Jo waleema naamoori aur dikhaawe ke liye ya logon se taareef ke liye kiya jaaywe uska kuchh Sawaab nahi balki ALLAAH TA,AALA ke gusse aur naaraazgi ka andesha hai.
